![]() ![]() If he won’t commit to his finances, he probably won’t commit to you. When it comes to men in relationships, PJ finds they typically have a certain level of assets, investments or savings in place before they are comfortable taking the next step.īottom line: Men need to be financially secure in their own skin before they can fully commit to a woman. PJ claims when he tries to convince his single male prospects to consider investing early to have financial freedom later on in life, they will say something along the lines of, “I can barely provide for myself, let alone invest or begin to think about committing to any kind of relationship.” Men feel like losers if they cannot provide, and they lose touch with their masculine energy. Even if a woman can financially take care of herself, we need to feel that we are needed. PJ says: If a man can’t even afford to take you out on dates regularly, grace you with roses occasionally or surprise you with a birthday gift, he is not going to date you. Obviously, men are now more likely to light a fire with an iPhone rather than sticks and stones. This wiring goes all the way back to the era of the cavemen, when it was their job to provide food and shelter and protect their families. There are several things that are taken into account when a man is analyzing his future and his finances with a woman.Īccording to PJ, these are the most common areas that men assess: The Need To Be A Protector And Providerīy nature, men are wired to be providers and protectors. If he cannot pay his bills 99 percent of the time, he won’t even commit to a six-month relationship. ![]() For a woman, she can be unable to commit to paying her bills on time, but she can totally be down to commit to a man for life. Women are different when it comes to finances and love. After some time in the industry, I started to notice a heavy correlation between how single men spend, save and invest their money and their dating or love lives. He explains: I deal with every type of family dynamic you can possibly think of. PJ* is a financial services professional, and he has experienced firsthand the correlation between finances and settling down. You may irrationally believe it’s because the sex is bad, there's another woman in his life or you’re not hot enough. Are you with a guy who doesn’t seem to want to take the next step or a put a ring on it? ![]()
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